A Child-Like Relationship
A Sermon on John 1:12-13
Originally preached Feb. 3, 1963
Scripture
12But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: 13Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
Sermon Description
What does it mean to be a child of God? The Bible gives many examples of the benefits of being a child of God, and how those children can know that they are truly members of God’s family. Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones says in this sermon on John 1:12–13 that one of the greatest evidences that they are truly born from God is that they will love what God loves. If they believe in Jesus and have been truly born again, they will love and pursue what God loves and desires. Just as natural children love what their parents love, so do spiritual children love what God loves. A person can look at their life and ask, “am I pursuing the things of God? Am I fleeing sin? Am I forsaking the world?” While the Bible never denies that Christians sin, it tells that Christians live a life of continual repentance and battle against sin. The Christian does not let it continually dominate their lives. This sermon calls all to ask the question, “am I a child of God? Am I trusting in Jesus Christ for my salvation?” If not, it is a call to believe and be born of the Spirit as a child of God.
Sermon Breakdown
- We are examining John 1:12-13 to understand our heritage as Christians.
- Verse 12 says that those who receive Jesus and believe in Him are given the right to become children of God.
- Verse 13 says these children are born of God, not of human will.
- We must examine ourselves to make sure we are truly children of God.
- The first test is our relationship to Jesus, the Son. We must receive and believe in Him.
- The second test is our relationship to God the Father. We must feel love, respect, and pride for Him.
- The third test is our interest in God's affairs and creation. We should see the world as God's, not just scientific phenomena.
- The fourth test is our awareness of God's purpose for the world. Mature Christians understand God's plan of redemption and salvation.
- The fifth test is our concern for God's church and kingdom. We should grieve over the state of the church and pray for revival.
- The sixth test is our anticipation of God's final triumph. We should long for Christ's return and God's kingdom.
- The seventh test is our desire to please God. This grows as we mature, from focusing on benefits to obeying out of love.
- The eighth test is that we do not continue in sin. We may stumble, but we do not make a practice of sinning. Our lives are fundamentally holy.
- The ninth test distinguishes backsliders from false believers. Backsliders will return to God; false believers remain in sin until death.
Sermon Q&A
Understanding Sonship in Christianity: Insights from Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones
What are the characteristics of being a child of God according to Dr. Lloyd-Jones?
According to Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones, the characteristics of being a child of God include:
- Having a personal relationship with Christ (receiving Him)
- Having a deep love for God the Father and being aware of the personal relationship
- Being interested in God's affairs and concerns
- Having a desire to see God's name glorified in the world
- Being grieved when God's name is blasphemed
- Seeing the world as God's creation and belonging to Him
- Being aware of and concerned about God's purpose for the world
- Having a deep concern for the welfare of the church
- Looking forward with longing to Christ's final triumph
- Finding joy in keeping God's commandments, not seeing them as grievous
- Not continuing in a lifestyle of sin
As Lloyd-Jones states: "The Christian is a man who does not go on committing sin. There is this continuous element... He doesn't lie down in sin. He doesn't live as he formally did."
How does Dr. Lloyd-Jones distinguish between true children of God and those who merely claim to be Christians?
Dr. Lloyd-Jones provides several tests to distinguish true children of God from mere claimants:
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The test of relationship with the Son: True children have received Christ and believe in His name.
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The test of relationship with the Father: True children have a personal, loving relationship with God as Father, not just intellectual knowledge.
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The test of interest in God's affairs: "The child always has an interest in the affairs and in the things of the parent." True children are concerned about God's kingdom, His church, and His purposes.
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The test of attitude toward God's commandments: True children find joy in obeying God's commands. As Lloyd-Jones says, "To the child, the commandments of God are not grievous. In other words, he rejoices in them. He likes them."
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The test of lifestyle: True children don't continue in a lifestyle of sin. While they may occasionally fall, their basic life pattern is one of righteousness.
Lloyd-Jones emphatically states: "He that saith I know him and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar. And the truth is not in him."
What does Dr. Lloyd-Jones teach about the Christian's concern for the church?
Dr. Lloyd-Jones teaches that a genuine Christian will have deep concern for the church because it is God's kingdom on earth. He explains:
"There is no more sure or certain test of our whole relationship than our interest in and our concern about the church of God."
This concern manifests in several ways: 1. Grief over the current state of the church when it's derided, scorned, or ridiculed 2. Prayer for the church's revival and success 3. Interest in the missionary enterprise and expansion of the church 4. A desire to see God's kingdom come in its fullness
Lloyd-Jones compares this to Jeremiah's grief over Jerusalem: "If Jeremiah wept and shed tears and was unhappy and was ill even, because he saw God's kingdom down... Are we grieved about the state of the Christian church? How often do we think about it? How often are we disturbed by this? How often have we wept for the church?"
He emphasizes that this concern increases as Christians mature in their faith, moving from self-centered interests to kingdom-centered concerns.
How does Dr. Lloyd-Jones explain the relationship between being born of God and the Christian's attitude toward sin?
Dr. Lloyd-Jones explains that being born of God fundamentally changes a person's relationship with sin. Drawing from 1 John 3:8-10, he teaches:
- When a person is born of God, they receive a new nature that cannot abide in sin
- The seed of God remains in them, making it impossible to continue in a lifestyle of sin
- This doesn't mean Christians never sin, but that they cannot remain in sin perpetually
He illustrates this difference using two life patterns: - The non-Christian has a basic moral level that occasionally improves temporarily but always returns to the lower baseline - The Christian has an elevated basic level that occasionally dips into sin but returns to the higher baseline
Lloyd-Jones explains the difference between a backslider and a non-Christian: "A backslider must come back. He can't continue there... The backslider, however grievously he may fall into sin, he never stays in it... He never ends his life in it."
He concludes: "If you tell me you know a man who's been born again and who seemed to be a bright Christian, but who lived the remainder of his life after a given point in sin... I say that man was never a Christian at all."
Why does Dr. Lloyd-Jones emphasize self-examination for Christians?
Dr. Lloyd-Jones emphasizes self-examination because:
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It ensures authentic faith: "These things are not mere theoretical truths... God deliver us from any mere intellectual, mechanical study or division of the scripture."
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It prevents self-deception: "There is always the danger of our deluding ourselves. So the larger the number of tests which we have and which we can apply to ourselves, the better for us and the safer will our position be."
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It affects eternal judgment: "You'll be judged in eternity by this. Can there be anything more terrible for a child than to arrive in the glory and find that the whole time he'd never grown?"
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It leads to spiritual growth: Self-examination helps Christians move from spiritual infancy to maturity, from self-centeredness to kingdom-mindedness.
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It has eternal consequences: "There is nothing more urgent for every one of us at this moment than to know that we are the children of God, not only because of the present, but because of the fact that we are going to die and because of the fact that the glory of eternity is there ahead of us."
Lloyd-Jones concludes his sermon with this exhortation: "Let's make certain. Let's not be content merely with words and with statements or anything superficial. Let's know that we are the children of God beyond any mistake."
The Book of John
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones (1899-1981) was a Welsh evangelical minister who preached and taught in the Reformed tradition. His principal ministry was at Westminster Chapel, in central London, from 1939-1968, where he delivered multi-year expositions on books of the bible such as Romans, Ephesians and the Gospel of John. In addition to the MLJ Trust’s collection of 1,600 of these sermons in audio format, most of these great sermon series are available in book form (including a 14 volume collection of the Romans sermons), as are other series such as "Spiritual Depression", "Studies in the Sermon on the Mount" and "Great Biblical Doctrines". He is considered by many evangelical leaders today to be an authority on biblical truth and the sufficiency of Scripture.