To Be Like Him
A Sermon on John 3:8
Originally preached Feb. 20, 1966
Scripture
8The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit.
Sermon Description
What does it mean to be like God? To answer this question, Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones looks at what it does not mean. In this sermon from John 3:8 titled “To Be Like Him,” he says that religion is the greatest enemy of Christianity because it tells them that they can be like God by simply changing their external actions and that there is no need to have a new heart, mind, and spirit. But this false religious notion is wholly opposed to everything that Scripture teaches. To be like God is to live a new life that comes out of a true love for God and Jesus Christ. Those who are saved and born again have a true love for righteousness, and it is not burdensome. Christians must all ask these questions: “Are you living for yourself or for Christ? Are you living in light of the true righteousness of Jesus Christ, or is your life dominated by external changes in behavior?” This sermon calls all to forsake false religiosity and look to Christ for holiness. It calls the Christian to live as a creature that has totally been transformed in the gospel. This sermon is a vital message that every man, woman, and child needs to hear. It is the message of God’s grace and the gift of new life in Christ.
Sermon Breakdown
- The sermon is based on John 3:8 which talks about being born of the Spirit.
- Nicodemus was a religious man but needed to understand the new life in Christ which is different.
- Religion is concerned with behavior and appearance but not the inner person. It looks at the outside, not the inside.
- Christianity is about a new life and nature, not just following rules or codes. It is life from God in the soul.
- A test of this new life is a changed attitude to the world. There is no longer a love of the world.
- Another test is a love of righteousness. There is a desire and hunger for holiness, not just avoiding sin.
- The commandments are not grievous to those born of God. They do not find the Christian life narrow or against the grain.
- Those with this new life want to please God as their Father. They have a personal relationship with Him.
- Righteousness is the basis of fellowship and communion with God. Sin separates us from God.
- The purpose of salvation is to make us righteous and bring us to God. It is not just about forgiveness of sins.
- A desire for righteousness and holiness is greater than a desire for happiness or experiences.
- This new life produces the fruit of the Spirit like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
- The fruit of the Spirit is not manufactured or added on. It comes from within as a result of the life of God in the soul.
- Religion lacks the fruit of the Spirit. It is mechanical, lifeless, and joyless. True Christianity vibrant with life.
- We must go to God and ask Him to work this new life in us. We cannot give birth to ourselves.
Sermon Q&A
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones on New Birth and Righteousness
What are the key differences between religion and Christianity according to Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones?
According to Dr. Lloyd-Jones, the greatest enemy of the Christian faith is religion. He explains that religion is primarily concerned with outward appearance and behavior rather than inner transformation. The key differences include:
- Religion is focused on what a person doesn't do (negative morality), while Christianity is focused on positive righteousness
- Religion is about cleaning "the outside of the cup and platter" while ignoring the "inward parts"
- Religion is mechanical and external, while Christianity is a living, internal reality
- Religion makes God's commandments feel "grievous" (burdensome), while to the true Christian they are not grievous
- Religion is more concerned with behavior than with the person themselves
- Religion is primarily about following rules, while Christianity is about a personal relationship with God
As Lloyd-Jones states: "The religious man is like your Christmas tree. It's manufactured, it's artificial, and you add things onto your branches... But that's not Christianity."
What does it mean to hunger and thirst after righteousness?
According to Dr. Lloyd-Jones, hungering and thirsting after righteousness is a key characteristic of true Christian life. It means:
- Having a positive desire for holiness rather than merely avoiding sin
- Seeking to be righteous because of a desire to please God as Father
- Wanting righteousness more than happiness or experiences
- Understanding that the ultimate purpose of salvation is not just forgiveness but transformation into righteousness
- Desiring communion with God, which requires righteousness as its basis
Lloyd-Jones emphasizes this point by quoting Matthew 5:6: "Blessed are they who hunger and thirst after righteousness." He notes that the beatitude doesn't say "Blessed are they who hunger and thirst after happiness" - highlighting that the Christian's primary desire should be for righteousness rather than personal satisfaction.
What is the fruit of the Spirit and why is it important in Christian life?
The fruit of the Spirit, according to Lloyd-Jones' sermon, is the natural outworking of God's life within a believer. He explains:
- Fruit cannot be manufactured or artificially produced - it must grow from within
- The fruit of the Spirit distinguishes true Christianity from mere religion
- The specific fruits include: love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, and temperance (self-control)
- These qualities emerge naturally from the new nature rather than being forced
Lloyd-Jones emphasizes: "Fruit is never manufactured. You can't add on fruit... Fruit is a manifestation of life, fruit is a manifestation of nature." This is significant because it demonstrates that true Christian character comes from internal transformation, not external conformity to rules. The presence of this fruit provides evidence that a person has genuinely been born again.
How does Dr. Lloyd-Jones describe the ultimate purpose of salvation?
Dr. Lloyd-Jones explains that many people mistakenly think the ultimate purpose of salvation is merely forgiveness of sins. However, he argues that forgiveness is only the beginning. The ultimate purpose of salvation is:
- To make us righteous and restore God's image in us
- To bring us back into communion and fellowship with God
- To purify us and make us "a peculiar people, zealous of good works"
- To fulfill the righteousness of the law in us
- To transform us into the likeness of Christ
He quotes 2 Corinthians 5:21: "He has made him to be sin for us who knew no sin, that we might be made the righteousness of God in him," and Titus 2:14, which states Christ "gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works." For Lloyd-Jones, salvation's goal is not just to save us from punishment but to restore us to what God originally intended us to be.
How can a person test whether they have been truly born again?
Dr. Lloyd-Jones provides several tests to determine if someone has genuinely been born again:
- Do God's commandments feel grievous or burdensome to you? To a true Christian, they are not grievous.
- Do you have an instinctive desire to please God as your Father?
- Do you understand that righteousness is the basis for communion with God?
- Is your desire for righteousness greater than your desire for happiness or experiences?
- Do you show evidence of the fruit of the Spirit in your life?
- Is there a changed attitude toward sin and the world?
- Do you have real joy that persists regardless of circumstances?
Lloyd-Jones emphasizes: "If you can say with confidence that you are hungering and thirsting after righteousness beyond everything else in the world, my dear friend, you've got the life of God in you. For no man ever is in that position except the man who has been born of the Spirit."
The Book of John
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones (1899-1981) was a Welsh evangelical minister who preached and taught in the Reformed tradition. His principal ministry was at Westminster Chapel, in central London, from 1939-1968, where he delivered multi-year expositions on books of the bible such as Romans, Ephesians and the Gospel of John. In addition to the MLJ Trust’s collection of 1,600 of these sermons in audio format, most of these great sermon series are available in book form (including a 14 volume collection of the Romans sermons), as are other series such as "Spiritual Depression", "Studies in the Sermon on the Mount" and "Great Biblical Doctrines". He is considered by many evangelical leaders today to be an authority on biblical truth and the sufficiency of Scripture.