A Sermon on Ephesians 5:22-23
Wives and Husbands
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. (ESV)
The most important principle for understanding the apostle Paul’s teaching in Ephesians 5:22-23 is his command that all “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” This is the message being exposited by Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones, that all relationships and all that we do must be done out of love of God and love of neighbor. There is no place for self-centered and self-serving attitudes in the Christian life. When people do not have this principle as the guide to relationships, things go wrong. Much of modern society is a testament to this fact in the commonness of divorce. This is because people have rejected God’s way and set up their own. As all Christians know, belief and practice cannot be separated from one another. But this is precisely what happens in modern society when people do not have the proper understanding of what marriage is. They say it is simply a human contract that can be broken any time by anyone. This rejection of the Christian view of marriage, particularly by the so-called feminist movement, is a testament of what happens when people reject God’s Word as the only sure and true foundation for human life and practice.