Keeping the Unity of the Spirit
A Sermon on Ephesians 4:2-3
Originally preached May 19, 1957
Scripture
2With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; 3Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Sermon Description
Conflict is an ongoing part of life today, just as it was for the church at Ephesus. In this sermon on Ephesians 4:2–3, Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones opens Paul’s letter to the Ephesians and addresses how believers can live in unity and peace. Rather than ignore sin or avoid confrontation, Christians must quickly exhort and forgive one another, guarding the unity of the Spirit, and guarding the fellowship of believers. This is supernatural unity that can only belong to those indwelt with the Spirit. Therefore, to not guard this unity is actually a grievance to the Holy Spirit. So how can one guard Holy Spirit’s unity? Dr. Lloyd-Jones proclaims that being humble, gentle, patient, and bearing with one another are critical characteristics of believing relationships. Christian brothers and sisters must do this because they love one another and desire to guard their unity. Just as parents humbly serve and instruct their children with patience and gentleness, Christians must do the same thing with their brothers and sisters in Christ.
Sermon Breakdown
- The apostle Paul is appealing to the Ephesians to preserve the unity of the Spirit.
- This unity is produced by the Holy Spirit, not by human efforts. We are called to guard and keep this unity, not create it.
- This unity is spiritual, unseen and internal but also expresses itself externally. We start with the internal and move to the external.
- This unity can only be understood through understanding the doctrine of the Holy Spirit. It can only be felt and experienced if the Holy Spirit is present.
- If the Holy Spirit is not present in a person, we cannot experience unity with them. If the Holy Spirit is present in two people, they will recognize and have fellowship with each other.
- The unity Paul speaks of is not just friendship or camaraderie but is theological and doctrinal, based on the truth.
- Our duty is to endeavor to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Endeavor means to hasten to do something, to be diligent. Keep means to guard, hold fast, preserve.
- We keep this unity through humility, meekness, longsuffering, forbearance, and love. These describe our disposition and our relationships with others.
- Humility means having a humble opinion of oneself, the opposite of pride. Meekness means inner gentleness and mildness, compatible with strength.
- Longsuffering means patiently enduring offense or hardship. Forbearance means holding back from retaliation or passion. Love means seeking the other's good.
- As we are peaceable, peace-loving and peacemaking, we preserve peace and the unity it binds together.
- This is living out the Beatitudes and the fruit of the Spirit. If we fail here, success elsewhere is useless. Doctrine and conduct should aim at preserving the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Sermon Q&A
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones on Unity of the Spirit Questions and Answers
What is the first particular aspect of Christian living mentioned by Paul in Ephesians 4?
According to Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones, the first particular aspect of Christian living that Paul mentions in Ephesians 4:2-3 is "endeavoring to keep the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace." Lloyd-Jones emphasizes that this comes first for a reason: "Why did he choose this as the first thing? Why is this the first particular? The answer, of course, is to be found in the first three chapters of this great epistle, because there the thing which the apostle has been emphasizing in his doctrine above everything else is this great matter of unity."
What does Lloyd-Jones say about the nature of the unity Paul describes?
Lloyd-Jones explains that the unity Paul describes is not simply human friendship or camaraderie. It's not "some common aim or a series of common aims." Rather, it is a unity produced by the Holy Spirit Himself: "The unity about which the apostle is concerned here is the unity which is produced and created by the Holy spirit himself. He alone can produce this unity." Lloyd-Jones emphasizes that this unity is "a living unity," "a vital unity," and "not a mechanical unity." He states, "There is all the difference in the world between a coalition and a true unity."
According to Lloyd-Jones, do Christians create unity or preserve it?
Lloyd-Jones makes a crucial distinction that Christians are not called to create unity but to preserve it: "The apostle doesn't ask us to create a unity. What he asks us to do is not to break the unity that is already there and which has been produced and created by the Holy Spirit himself." He explains, "He doesn't ask us to make a unity or to create a unity. No, guard it, he says, it is there. It's there because you're Christians. You can't be a Christian without the work of the Holy Spirit."
What virtues does Paul mention for maintaining unity according to Lloyd-Jones?
Lloyd-Jones identifies several virtues Paul mentions as essential for preserving unity: 1. Lowliness (humility) - "Humility, the chiefest of all the christian virtues, the hallmark of the man, the child of God." 2. Meekness - "an inner mildness, gentleness." 3. Long-suffering - "suffering long... a long holding out of the mind before it gives room to passion or to action." 4. Forbearance - "to hold yourself up against [temptation]... Put up with it. Bear it, endure it, suffer it." 5. Love - "If you only love people, well, then you will be long suffering and forbearing because you'll have their interests at heart."
How does Lloyd-Jones contrast modern approaches to unity with Paul's teaching?
Lloyd-Jones contrasts the biblical understanding of unity with modern ecumenical approaches: "So much of the modern talk about unity is just put in some such terms as that. It's very vague, it's very indefinite, it's very nebulous." He criticizes approaches that say: "Let's all come together. We mustn't be too particular about things, but we must have this spirit of fellowship and of friendship and of working together against this common enemy."
Lloyd-Jones points out that modern approaches often reverse the biblical order: "Their great argument is this. Here we are divided and separated. Let's begin to act together, to work together, and then we'll probably feel the spirit of unity. But that's a denial of the whole thing." Instead, he insists that "in every manifestation of life, the internal principle comes first and then the outward manifestation."
Why does Lloyd-Jones emphasize that unity is internal before external?
Lloyd-Jones emphasizes that true unity begins internally because it's produced by the Holy Spirit: "The thing itself is internal. Its external expression also has to be considered. But again, let us notice the importance of the order. You don't start with that which is external and then hope to arrive at the internal. You start with the internal and go out to the external."
He uses several analogies to make this point: "A body, as I'm never tired of saying, does not consist of a collection of parts and portions stuck together somehow. No, the parts have come out of the central being. The parts have emanated from the heart, from the living core." He also notes, "Nobody's ever seen a soul, and yet the soul is the most important thing in men... And if I merely discuss my body and leave out the soul, how foolish I am."
The Book of Ephesians
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones (1899-1981) was a Welsh evangelical minister who preached and taught in the Reformed tradition. His principal ministry was at Westminster Chapel, in central London, from 1939-1968, where he delivered multi-year expositions on books of the bible such as Romans, Ephesians and the Gospel of John. In addition to the MLJ Trust’s collection of 1,600 of these sermons in audio format, most of these great sermon series are available in book form (including a 14 volume collection of the Romans sermons), as are other series such as "Spiritual Depression", "Studies in the Sermon on the Mount" and "Great Biblical Doctrines". He is considered by many evangelical leaders today to be an authority on biblical truth and the sufficiency of Scripture.