Preparing for the Guest
A Sermon on Ephesians 3:19
Originally preached March 24, 1957
Scripture
19And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.
Sermon Description
A Christian will hear the voice of God and understand His mind by reading His Word. In this sermon on Ephesians 3:19 titled “Preparing for a Guest,” Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones proclaims that this requires both prayer and study to come to a deeper knowledge of God and His word. This should be part of a continual pursuit of God that marks the whole life of a Christian. But Christians must always avoid the temptation to fall into ritualistic practices of reading Scripture and praying as dead acts. Dr. Lloyd-Jones exhorts the listener to cultivate deep and abiding affections for God. This is not as a way to gain favor with God, but instead born out of a heart of thankfulness and love for all that He is and all that He has done in Christ. Ultimately no one is able to seek and worship Him rightfully without the saving work of Christ Jesus being applied by the saving power of the Holy Spirit. Even in the believer’s pursuit of God, they only do so because of what God has already done for them by the grace of His gospel. This should encourage believers to respond with nothing but gratitude and affection toward God for the great salvation and new heart that He has given in Christ Jesus.
Sermon Breakdown
- Seek the person of Christ, not just blessings
- Read the Bible actively and expectantly, looking for Christ in it
- Pray with preparation, meditation, and expectancy
- Give thanks and praise, expressing feeble love for Christ
- Please Christ by keeping His commandments and avoiding displeasing Him
- Be importunate and wholehearted in seeking Christ
- Be responsive to Christ's approaches, however faint
Sermon Q&A
Questions and Answers from Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones' Sermon on Knowing the Love of Christ
What does Lloyd-Jones mean by "experimental knowledge" of Christ's love?
Dr. Lloyd-Jones distinguishes between conceptual knowledge and experimental knowledge of Christ's love. Experimental knowledge refers to a direct, personal experience of Christ's love rather than merely understanding it intellectually. As he explains, "We've established, I think, the fact that this is an experimental knowledge, that it is not that which he describes in the word comprehend, which is conceptual, but that this is truly experimental." This experiential dimension involves a personal encounter with Christ's love that goes beyond mere mental understanding.
How should Christians approach reading the Bible according to Lloyd-Jones?
According to Lloyd-Jones, Christians should approach Bible reading with deliberate concentration and expectation of meeting Christ. He states, "You know, it's possible even to read the scriptures in a thoroughly profitless manner. If you simply read the scriptures mechanically." Instead, we should: - Talk to ourselves before reading about what we're seeking - Apply all our intelligence and faculties - Pray for the Holy Spirit's illumination - Read with "an air of great expectation" - Look for Christ himself in every passage - Remember that the Bible is "the heaven drawn picture of Christ, the living word"
What are the key principles Lloyd-Jones gives for experiencing Christ's love?
Lloyd-Jones outlines several principles for experiencing Christ's love:
- Seek Christ through the Word of God with expectation
- Pray with self-examination and thanksgiving
- Please Christ in all things and avoid what displeases Him
- Practice importunity (persistent seeking) with wholehearted concentration
- Be responsive to Christ's approaches, however slight they may be
As he summarizes: "These are the principles, my friends. You see what a delicate, sensitive thing it is. O may God fill us with his spirit and with wisdom and with understanding that we may be alive and alert and sensitive."
What warning does Lloyd-Jones give about approaching this experience mechanically?
Lloyd-Jones warns against viewing the experience of Christ's love as mechanical or automatic. He states, "We must never conceive of this in a mechanical manner. It's not something that happens automatically. If we do something, then we have it. No, it isn't that." He emphasizes that we are dealing with a personal relationship with Christ, not a formula. This means Christ reveals His love in His sovereign timing and way, often surprising us: "That so often when we think we deserve the manifestation of his love, we don't get it. But when we are feeling lost and hopeless and abandoned, and at the end of ourselves, suddenly he reveals himself to us."
How does Lloyd-Jones explain the importance of thanksgiving in prayer?
Lloyd-Jones emphasizes thanksgiving as a vital part of experiencing Christ's love. He warns against only making requests without expressing gratitude: "Oh, what a fallacy that is. It's like the child who's always making demands and requests of the parents and never shows any appreciation whatsoever." He advises: "If we believe and go by faith, well, then thank him. Pour out your heart unto him in thanksgiving and praise if you believe that he has died for you." He adds that "The more you thank him and express your feeble love to him, the more likely you are to know his love to you."
What does the story of the farmer's son teach about experiencing Christ's love?
Lloyd-Jones uses the story of a farmer's son who gave up drinking to win the woman he loved as an illustration of the choices we must make to experience Christ's love. The man had to decide between his love for the woman and his attachment to alcohol. Similarly, Christians must decide what they value most: Christ or those things that displease Him. Lloyd-Jones explains: "There are certain things that the Lord Jesus Christ hates and abominates. It's simple logic, therefore, to argue that if we hold on to them and indulge in them, we rarely have no right to expect the manifestation of his love."
What lesson does Lloyd-Jones draw from the Song of Solomon regarding responsiveness?
From Song of Solomon 5:1-6, Lloyd-Jones draws a crucial lesson about being immediately responsive to Christ's approaches. In the passage, the bride delays answering her beloved's knock, and when she finally opens the door, he has gone. Lloyd-Jones applies this to our spiritual lives: "The whole essence of wisdom in this matter is... whenever he makes an approach, it is to be grasped at, to be held on to immediately with a ready response. Don't delay it, don't postpone it." He warns that if we delay responding to Christ's gentle approaches, we may miss opportunities for deeper communion with Him.
What does Lloyd-Jones mean by having "importunity" in seeking Christ's love?
By "importunity," Lloyd-Jones means persistent, wholehearted seeking of Christ. He references Jesus' parable of the importunate widow from Luke 18 who kept bringing her petition to the unjust judge until he granted her request. Lloyd-Jones advises: "Go on. Don't merely start. Don't be content with just feeling occasional, oh, I'd like this. And then make a spurt and then forget. Keep on going on and on. Don't give up." He also points to Jacob's example at Peniel who said, "I will not let thee go except thou bless me" as the spirit we must cultivate.
Why does Lloyd-Jones say we should be sensitive to Christ's slight approaches?
Lloyd-Jones emphasizes that Christ often approaches us gently and subtly at first: "The Holy Spirit is, compared to a dove, the most gentle of all the birds... He doesn't always manifest the fullness of his love. No, he just gives you very, very slight indication." Therefore, we must be vigilant and responsive to even the smallest signs of His presence. He advises: "Never despise the day of small things. And therefore, the moment you feel the slightest drawing or indication of Islam, act upon it at once." This responsiveness allows Christ to come "more frequently, and the manifestations will be plainer and clearer."
Who is the intended audience for this sermon by Lloyd-Jones?
The sermon is intended for believers who already know Christ but have not yet experienced the depths of His love. Lloyd-Jones makes this clear when he says: "Let me again remind you that the people for whom the apostle offers this prayer were converted people. They had already been brought from darkness to light... this is not a prayer for unbelievers, it's a prayer for Christians. The apostle says you were Christians, but you at the moment seem to know very little about what is possible for you in a knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ and of his love in a direct, immediate, and personal sense."
The Book of Ephesians
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones
Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones (1899-1981) was a Welsh evangelical minister who preached and taught in the Reformed tradition. His principal ministry was at Westminster Chapel, in central London, from 1939-1968, where he delivered multi-year expositions on books of the bible such as Romans, Ephesians and the Gospel of John. In addition to the MLJ Trust’s collection of 1,600 of these sermons in audio format, most of these great sermon series are available in book form (including a 14 volume collection of the Romans sermons), as are other series such as "Spiritual Depression", "Studies in the Sermon on the Mount" and "Great Biblical Doctrines". He is considered by many evangelical leaders today to be an authority on biblical truth and the sufficiency of Scripture.